On Earth, just a teaspoon of neutron star
would weigh six billion tons. Six billion tons
is equivalent to the weight of every animal
on earth. Including the insects. Times three.
Six billion tons sounds impossible
until I consider how it is to swallow grief—
just a teaspoon and one might as well have consumed
a neutron star. How dense it is,
how it carries inside it the memory of collapse.
How difficult it is to move then.
How impossible to believe that anything
could lift that weight.
There are many reasons to treat each other
with great tenderness. One is
the sheer miracle that we are here together
on a planet surrounded by dying stars.
One is that we cannot see what
anyone else has swallowed.
This was perfect for me today. Thank you.
thank you so much for letting me know … strength and grace to you.
from Dayton, Ohio, thank you ♥️
thank YOU … wishing you grace
Beautiful. This is such a wonderful thought to carry with me each day.
Ruby, thank you. Many hugs to you
I’ve lived it, and you’ve said it….wow…what a gift! Thank you, Rosemerry.
Carol, thank you … yeah, I have lived on both sides of it. xo
I brought this poem to my poetry workshop group for our session on poems we admire. We read each poem twice, then call out lines we love. The process elevates any poem, but oh my, it let this one shine even brighter.
(My science nerd side always wants to shoehorn interesting findings into poetry but it’s not easily done. In this and other pieces, you make it seem effortless!)
that makes me soooo happy. I know how muchI love reading poems aloud twice all the time … and I love thinking of it happening to one that I wrote! it just has a way of making the poem more alive, more accessible. Thanks for the nice note about the science/poetry blend. I have been having so much fun combining the two!
Hi, Rosemerry. A complete accident brought me here and I just wanted to say that this poem of yours perfectly resonated with a guy from a random small country across the world. I’m in awe and definitely going to check out your work. Have a brilliant day and thank you for giving life to this so all of us can enjoy its depth and moral.
Wow, thanks, Aleks, dear “guy from a random small country across the world.” Thank you for this note. Thank you for your thoughtful words. Thank you for reaching back!
Hey Rosemerry! I came across your poem today on social media and I can’t tell you how much it has helped me. I have made some small changes to my worklife to make space for my grief as a result. It is so beautiful and pertinent! Thank you, Orla (Scotland)
Thank you, Orla. I am so grateful for this kind note–and so grateful to hear that the poem inspired spaciousness in your life. Thank you so much for reaching back. With joy, Rosemerry
a very very stunning poem!
but could you please elaborate on ‘One is that we cannot see what anyone else has swallowed.’
i am a little new to poetry and still have trouble understanding some things
ahh, thank you. well, I suppose the last line is suggesting that all around us, there are others who may have “swallowed” a lot of grief–who are carrying inside them a great weight, but we can’t see it. And because we don’t know who around us is hurting, we might as well just treat everyone with great tenderness just in case …